itscomplicated.family

Planning holidays when it's complicated.

Relationship status: It's complicated. Holiday plan: sorted.

Two households, three calendars, one child with opinions – and somebody has already booked. Patchwork families are wonderful. Sharing out the holidays so that everyone gets something out of them is … let's say: complicated.

itscomplicated.family doesn't make it simple, but it does make it clear: everyone enters when they are available, and a calculator shows which ways of sharing the holiday weeks work out. Matter-of-fact, no rankings, no blame.

How it works

• Add adults and children, form households, draw connections.
• Every adult marks each holiday week: blocked, reluctant or flexible.
• A solver shows every distribution that fits the wishes – and how many options a single block costs. No ranking, no blame.
• Access only by personal link; no ads, no tracking, everything stays on this server.
• Free and in many languages – some families are complicated internationally, too.

Already invited? Open your access link – or tap the lock at the top if you already have a passkey.